Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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For Day Game: How do you go direct in 2,3, or 4, etc.. set of women?

Deicide

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Hey everyone. While I was in a college town, I noticed a weakness in my game arsenal. And that is approaching women in 2,3, and 4 sets and getting closes out of it during the daytime. How do I go direct and let the group know who my target is in that scenario? Should I say something like "Hey. How're all of you doing? I think this girl here is attractive and I'd like to meet her, is that ok?" That's pretty much all I've thought of so far other than engaging the group themselves. This is during daygame, so I don't have time to mess around with indirect stuff most likely due to time constraints.
I saw a few attractive women today in these group sets, but I didn't approach due to fear of course(And this is coming from someone with little AA when it comes to 1-2 sets of women in places like grocery and retail stores). I imagine doing mixed sets in Day Game would be even harder, but there are always methods to ease things. Any advice is welcome.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oscarxp25

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Ask a question. Women love to hear themselves talk about their own opinions.
 
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Try this out:

TO GROUP: ok this is gonna sound completely random, but I just noticed your friend and have to tell her something...

TO TARGET: I just saw you from over there/walking by and thought you look ___________(insert honest compliment) and had to meet you and see if your cool...

TO GROUP: You're all cute, but I'm just very attracted to (look at target realizing you don't know her name)...your friend....

TO TARGET: whats your name? blah blah blah (have a fun short conversation and wrap up with a FTC and a number close quickly)


I'm very interested in hearing what you think or any results you get with it...good luck man
 

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Sometimes I'll just start singing to them and have my focus on the girl I like...works pretty good. Even if you don't know the words.
 

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Thanks for the advice everyone. I'll have to try out legendary's suggestion.
Haha cool yuppaz, you should sing Purple Rain. That's what I would sing if I knew how to sing correctly. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't use routines per se, but I do create them on the fly sometimes. I tried this with a two-set to great effect. It would probably work with a larger set. It's very cute. See below.

Mike: How's everybody doing? <Or whatever lame opener you use.>

Target Chick: Good.

Obstacle Chick: Ok.

Mike: I'm Mike. <Go to shake target's hand.>

Target Chick: I'm Jenny. <Cool, got the target's name.>

Obstacle Chick: I'm Kate. <Got the obstacle's name>

Mike: <Shake Kate's hand> <Puts arm around Jenny's (target) waist>

Mike: Nice to meet you Kate. Oh yeah, have I introduce you to my new girlfriend Jenny lol?

This is usually well received. But if the target is not receptive, you can neg her. "Yeah, we've been going out for a while, but I'm ready to break up with her lol."
 

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Haha, thanks Mike. I just tried out legendary's opener out on a lesbian apparently. lol

I was at a store and I saw a 2-set of women in their late 20s, early 30s. I said Hey, I know this is random, but I think your friend is attractive and I'd like to meet her. I think she's cute. Then the target girl said that the other girl is her girlfriend. I just internally freaked out and said So you don't like men and my voice cracked. lol And I ejected.

I don't know why I get so nervous and panicked during cold approaches for. I do them a lot, but the fear snd uncomfortability remains.
 
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