"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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around 60 of my schoolmates and i went on a trip, and as early as the plane ride there this girl was (or seemed to be) interested in me. for the first 2 days of the trip there was pretty strong chemestry going on, and she was taking peaks at me (i caught her looking at me in one of those mirrors girls use to check there make-up). so i presumed there was something there, so i put on my DJ cap and went for it. but on the third night, my friend (who also said there was some chemestry) told his GF who i liked, and i think someone may of heared and went and told her. so later that night things went down a few notches, and she hung out with some other guy i know a few days later. i dont think it was anything, and they dont hang in the same group at school, so im not freaking out or anything. since we got back i think ive noticed her looking at me, but it could my mind playing tricks on me. irealize i probably sound like a panzy wuss, but i had to say this somewhere where i could get intelligent feedback, so i decided this was the place.

thanks for listening to me ramble away
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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you should have tried to get with that while you were on a trip...nothing would have been better than hooking up at a vacation!
 

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i tried, but it was only 5 and 1/2 days, im a little out of shape, and im not the best DJ out there.
 

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Originally posted by chill
i tried, but it was only 5 and 1/2 days, im a little out of shape, and im not the best DJ out there.
fat guys get chicks too, dog. Notorious BIG...got many of the most gorgeous girls in hollywood, because he knew how to play the game.
 

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dont be insecure

talk to them when they look at you like that

say something witty

you can do it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i did make a pretty good joke when she looked at me with the vanity mirror. i said, " look, your supposed to use the mirror to make yourself look good, not look at good looking people" not supprisingly, she denied it, but was blushing kinda bad. if you look at a mirror and can see some ones eye looking at you, that means there looking at you, right?
 
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