"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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around 60 of my schoolmates and i went on a trip, and as early as the plane ride there this girl was (or seemed to be) interested in me. for the first 2 days of the trip there was pretty strong chemestry going on, and she was taking peaks at me (i caught her looking at me in one of those mirrors girls use to check there make-up). so i presumed there was something there, so i put on my DJ cap and went for it. but on the third night, my friend (who also said there was some chemestry) told his GF who i liked, and i think someone may of heared and went and told her. so later that night things went down a few notches, and she hung out with some other guy i know a few days later. i dont think it was anything, and they dont hang in the same group at school, so im not freaking out or anything. since we got back i think ive noticed her looking at me, but it could my mind playing tricks on me. irealize i probably sound like a panzy wuss, but i had to say this somewhere where i could get intelligent feedback, so i decided this was the place.

thanks for listening to me ramble away
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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you should have tried to get with that while you were on a trip...nothing would have been better than hooking up at a vacation!
 

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i tried, but it was only 5 and 1/2 days, im a little out of shape, and im not the best DJ out there.
 

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Originally posted by chill
i tried, but it was only 5 and 1/2 days, im a little out of shape, and im not the best DJ out there.
fat guys get chicks too, dog. Notorious BIG...got many of the most gorgeous girls in hollywood, because he knew how to play the game.
 

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dont be insecure

talk to them when they look at you like that

say something witty

you can do it
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i did make a pretty good joke when she looked at me with the vanity mirror. i said, " look, your supposed to use the mirror to make yourself look good, not look at good looking people" not supprisingly, she denied it, but was blushing kinda bad. if you look at a mirror and can see some ones eye looking at you, that means there looking at you, right?
 
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