"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
For anyone who went through a BPD/Crazy girl/Psycho nightmare
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Actually just screwed around with my bpd ex lately after removing her from my life for 7 months,got dumped by my dream girl and I was at a low,they really don't change same games,chase you until they have a taste then push away. Tread very carefully with these sorry excuses for humans,mine even almost had me falsely arrested once.
Once you've gotten a BPD out of your life keep them out of your life, ya your mind thinks maybe I can change them the second time. Nope they don't change they are fvcked up you can blame their parents for that one. The girl I was with tried to change her life no matter how much she tried it all failed. If her parents mainly her father didn't screw up raising their daughter she would be a perfect catch. I liked her she is smart, she had the good looks, I loved being with her but the BPD part of her caused so much drama in my life. She used to make me laugh we understood each other, as our relationship progressed the ugly side of her come out. I didn't leave the relationship unscathed she caused me a lot of stress, she started accusing me of stuff I never did.
Her dad needs to be cuffed across the side of his head, look at what you did to your daughter she's fvcked for the rest of her life.
Her dad needs to be cuffed across the side of his head, look at what you did to your daughter she's fvcked for the rest of her life.
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These people don't change either so in case there's any guys in one of these relationships still trying to be hopeful and holding on GET OUT, things will not get better,the goal of this disorder is for them to destroy the one they claim to love,if you look you'll see every person that's actually good to them they treat awful. Some of the things mine put me through are so inhumane and embarrassing I will never share with another soul, I screwed mine after 7 months nc because I'm completely over her though still not smart to do and she's still the most magnificent pathological liar I've ever known. Every promise or plan is empty,literally goes from acting head over heels about your love past or present and the next day she'll be getting with another guy. The healthiest thing you can do for yourself or
Her is dump her and do whatever possible to protect yourself from what she may pull after doing so, it takes big life changing events for them to have the slightest chance of change.
Her is dump her and do whatever possible to protect yourself from what she may pull after doing so, it takes big life changing events for them to have the slightest chance of change.
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I wrote 'either' of the 4, because they are all one and the same. And the damage is subtle and insidious. With constant shifting of truths with lies which are so trivial you start to second guess yourself. It's easy to get caught in the web. Only when I got enough I reached escaped velocity and the fallout was brutal due to her abandonment issues.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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It's been said time and time again and it'll be said over and over again but it only gets worse the longer you stay involved because as they get worse you actually weaken at the same time.
Walk away and if you can only crawl, do that.
These girls will go to like new lows that'll shock you in an effort to screw you over.
Mine will be appearing on a reality TV show next year. I mean you couldn't make it up.
Walk away and if you can only crawl, do that.
These girls will go to like new lows that'll shock you in an effort to screw you over.
Mine will be appearing on a reality TV show next year. I mean you couldn't make it up.
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It's not filming till March, and I'm hoping something happens between now and then to prevent it but if it doesn't, I'll share privately via pm