You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yeah Canada
I am an American and pay nothing for my healthcare and get FREE viagra sent to me in the mail from the VA...Americans need to WORK and pay for their own damn health care...Yeah Canada
Public health cares work!
We pay less than Americans on medication and overall... even with our public system
and we can go to American hospitals and get reimbursed by our Canadian Governement (yep.... we that bad lol)
You served in the military so you did pay for your medical care with your service.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yes..... but IMO the general population should not have " public health care" in the US like Canada has was my point.
You will have all of the ladies asking is that a banana in your pocket or are you just glad to see me?
I remember talking to a man who at that time was in his early 50s, and one of his students (a 16 year old) came on to him. He said that a fresh maiden like that worked better than Viagra. (I should say that he was an English teacher abroad.)I thought this was gonna be against marriage and wives getting fat... the biggest reason of ED.
I am all about preventive medecine.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'll be 60 this year and have never needed it. On a good day I can go 3 times in about 24 hours. Girlfriend is 12 years younger.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Um... Yeah... Coke D*ck. That'll do it. All in all though, still sounds like a good night.OK so I did half g of good quality coke, a large meal, abiout 15 beers and 1 Viagra and sex didn;t work.
Oh,plus 100mg valuium.
Could not finish the job
my fault.
You would be surpirsed how many women don't care. As lomg as you can do the business when needed/
I cant really call this ED because afyer all this intoxicaation, the 21 year old me suffered the same fait.
As an aside, I had FAR more issues when I was young and worried and lost itthrougn nerves AL LOT. SO, given tbe aoiunt of ber and drugs. No shame.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
