I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Yeah Canada
I am an American and pay nothing for my healthcare and get FREE viagra sent to me in the mail from the VA...Americans need to WORK and pay for their own damn health care...Yeah Canada
Public health cares work!
We pay less than Americans on medication and overall... even with our public system
and we can go to American hospitals and get reimbursed by our Canadian Governement (yep.... we that bad lol)
You served in the military so you did pay for your medical care with your service.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yes..... but IMO the general population should not have " public health care" in the US like Canada has was my point.
You will have all of the ladies asking is that a banana in your pocket or are you just glad to see me?
I remember talking to a man who at that time was in his early 50s, and one of his students (a 16 year old) came on to him. He said that a fresh maiden like that worked better than Viagra. (I should say that he was an English teacher abroad.)I thought this was gonna be against marriage and wives getting fat... the biggest reason of ED.
I am all about preventive medecine.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I'll be 60 this year and have never needed it. On a good day I can go 3 times in about 24 hours. Girlfriend is 12 years younger.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Um... Yeah... Coke D*ck. That'll do it. All in all though, still sounds like a good night.OK so I did half g of good quality coke, a large meal, abiout 15 beers and 1 Viagra and sex didn;t work.
Oh,plus 100mg valuium.
Could not finish the job
my fault.
You would be surpirsed how many women don't care. As lomg as you can do the business when needed/
I cant really call this ED because afyer all this intoxicaation, the 21 year old me suffered the same fait.
As an aside, I had FAR more issues when I was young and worried and lost itthrougn nerves AL LOT. SO, given tbe aoiunt of ber and drugs. No shame.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
