Demodulate
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tactical swat gear works great for clubbing...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
for a guy in his 30s
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
"Best" is subjective.
It depends on the type of club also the type of women you want to attact.
Let me ask you a questions...sit back relax, think of the club and act out in your mind striking up a great conversation with a HB. She is totaly into you and the you take her the sweaty dance floor...keep up for mojo now...she is all over you. Nicely done, she sends you a smile thats makes you feel you've just won the lottery..so you end up with a night of passion back at your place!
Which clubbing gear were you wearing?
Only you know the answer!
The key is to wear clothes that YOU love and make you feel confident. I could tell you to go out and buy my $1200 Boss jacket but who I am to tell you what to wear lol.
Here's my advice:
1) If in doubt, check out the clubs website and to see the environment you'll be in.
2) Although I rarely take womens advice, the times I do is when I go shopping for clothes. I trust the experts.
3) Where clothes that make you feel like the man.
As within, so without. As without (some great theads) so with in !
Elimidate
It depends on the type of club also the type of women you want to attact.
Let me ask you a questions...sit back relax, think of the club and act out in your mind striking up a great conversation with a HB. She is totaly into you and the you take her the sweaty dance floor...keep up for mojo now...she is all over you. Nicely done, she sends you a smile thats makes you feel you've just won the lottery..so you end up with a night of passion back at your place!
Which clubbing gear were you wearing?
Only you know the answer!
The key is to wear clothes that YOU love and make you feel confident. I could tell you to go out and buy my $1200 Boss jacket but who I am to tell you what to wear lol.
Here's my advice:
1) If in doubt, check out the clubs website and to see the environment you'll be in.
2) Although I rarely take womens advice, the times I do is when I go shopping for clothes. I trust the experts.
3) Where clothes that make you feel like the man.
As within, so without. As without (some great theads) so with in !
Elimidate
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Aztec
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Demodulate
tactical swat gear works great for clubbing...
:crackup: A cop carrying a "club".
Derek Flint
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Don't try to dress like the younger guys - you'll look like a "tryhard" and will look out of place.
A nice shirt and slacks will do fine.
Leave that "peacocking" crap to the clowns
Eric Clapton
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Re: Re: for a guy in his 30s
Ditto, dress how you feel comfortable, but be stylish, don't try to look like a frat boy when you are 12 yrs. senior.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DoubleA
Senior Don Juan
I agree.
Be comfortable. I mean I can tell you from experience there were times I walked into a club wearing a suit and got NO LOOKS. I MEAN NONE. Damn.
Then I realized as long as you're loose and confortable you'll have more enjoyable experience. Let's face it everyone is going into the place looking their best. It's not a fashion show.
Man, wear a nice shirt and trouser combination. Just like Flint said.
Find out if the place gets hot or has AC. If it's a sweat box then tank top T shirt undernearth.
Finally..F the dumb it. Use a fragrance very lightly. If it gets on your clothes the better.
HOLLA
Be comfortable. I mean I can tell you from experience there were times I walked into a club wearing a suit and got NO LOOKS. I MEAN NONE. Damn.
Then I realized as long as you're loose and confortable you'll have more enjoyable experience. Let's face it everyone is going into the place looking their best. It's not a fashion show.
Man, wear a nice shirt and trouser combination. Just like Flint said.
Find out if the place gets hot or has AC. If it's a sweat box then tank top T shirt undernearth.
Finally..F the dumb it. Use a fragrance very lightly. If it gets on your clothes the better.
HOLLA