Demodulate
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tactical swat gear works great for clubbing...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
for a guy in his 30s
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
"Best" is subjective.
It depends on the type of club also the type of women you want to attact.
Let me ask you a questions...sit back relax, think of the club and act out in your mind striking up a great conversation with a HB. She is totaly into you and the you take her the sweaty dance floor...keep up for mojo now...she is all over you. Nicely done, she sends you a smile thats makes you feel you've just won the lottery..so you end up with a night of passion back at your place!
Which clubbing gear were you wearing?
Only you know the answer!
The key is to wear clothes that YOU love and make you feel confident. I could tell you to go out and buy my $1200 Boss jacket but who I am to tell you what to wear lol.
Here's my advice:
1) If in doubt, check out the clubs website and to see the environment you'll be in.
2) Although I rarely take womens advice, the times I do is when I go shopping for clothes. I trust the experts.
3) Where clothes that make you feel like the man.
As within, so without. As without (some great theads) so with in !
Elimidate
It depends on the type of club also the type of women you want to attact.
Let me ask you a questions...sit back relax, think of the club and act out in your mind striking up a great conversation with a HB. She is totaly into you and the you take her the sweaty dance floor...keep up for mojo now...she is all over you. Nicely done, she sends you a smile thats makes you feel you've just won the lottery..so you end up with a night of passion back at your place!
Which clubbing gear were you wearing?
Only you know the answer!
The key is to wear clothes that YOU love and make you feel confident. I could tell you to go out and buy my $1200 Boss jacket but who I am to tell you what to wear lol.
Here's my advice:
1) If in doubt, check out the clubs website and to see the environment you'll be in.
2) Although I rarely take womens advice, the times I do is when I go shopping for clothes. I trust the experts.
3) Where clothes that make you feel like the man.
As within, so without. As without (some great theads) so with in !
Elimidate
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Aztec
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Demodulate
tactical swat gear works great for clubbing...
:crackup: A cop carrying a "club".
Derek Flint
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Don't try to dress like the younger guys - you'll look like a "tryhard" and will look out of place.
A nice shirt and slacks will do fine.
Leave that "peacocking" crap to the clowns
Eric Clapton
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Re: Re: for a guy in his 30s
Ditto, dress how you feel comfortable, but be stylish, don't try to look like a frat boy when you are 12 yrs. senior.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
DoubleA
Senior Don Juan
I agree.
Be comfortable. I mean I can tell you from experience there were times I walked into a club wearing a suit and got NO LOOKS. I MEAN NONE. Damn.
Then I realized as long as you're loose and confortable you'll have more enjoyable experience. Let's face it everyone is going into the place looking their best. It's not a fashion show.
Man, wear a nice shirt and trouser combination. Just like Flint said.
Find out if the place gets hot or has AC. If it's a sweat box then tank top T shirt undernearth.
Finally..F the dumb it. Use a fragrance very lightly. If it gets on your clothes the better.
HOLLA
Be comfortable. I mean I can tell you from experience there were times I walked into a club wearing a suit and got NO LOOKS. I MEAN NONE. Damn.
Then I realized as long as you're loose and confortable you'll have more enjoyable experience. Let's face it everyone is going into the place looking their best. It's not a fashion show.
Man, wear a nice shirt and trouser combination. Just like Flint said.
Find out if the place gets hot or has AC. If it's a sweat box then tank top T shirt undernearth.
Finally..F the dumb it. Use a fragrance very lightly. If it gets on your clothes the better.
HOLLA