Demodulate
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tactical swat gear works great for clubbing...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
for a guy in his 30s
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Elimidate
Senior Don Juan
"Best" is subjective.
It depends on the type of club also the type of women you want to attact.
Let me ask you a questions...sit back relax, think of the club and act out in your mind striking up a great conversation with a HB. She is totaly into you and the you take her the sweaty dance floor...keep up for mojo now...she is all over you. Nicely done, she sends you a smile thats makes you feel you've just won the lottery..so you end up with a night of passion back at your place!
Which clubbing gear were you wearing?
Only you know the answer!
The key is to wear clothes that YOU love and make you feel confident. I could tell you to go out and buy my $1200 Boss jacket but who I am to tell you what to wear lol.
Here's my advice:
1) If in doubt, check out the clubs website and to see the environment you'll be in.
2) Although I rarely take womens advice, the times I do is when I go shopping for clothes. I trust the experts.
3) Where clothes that make you feel like the man.
As within, so without. As without (some great theads) so with in !
Elimidate
It depends on the type of club also the type of women you want to attact.
Let me ask you a questions...sit back relax, think of the club and act out in your mind striking up a great conversation with a HB. She is totaly into you and the you take her the sweaty dance floor...keep up for mojo now...she is all over you. Nicely done, she sends you a smile thats makes you feel you've just won the lottery..so you end up with a night of passion back at your place!
Which clubbing gear were you wearing?
Only you know the answer!
The key is to wear clothes that YOU love and make you feel confident. I could tell you to go out and buy my $1200 Boss jacket but who I am to tell you what to wear lol.
Here's my advice:
1) If in doubt, check out the clubs website and to see the environment you'll be in.
2) Although I rarely take womens advice, the times I do is when I go shopping for clothes. I trust the experts.
3) Where clothes that make you feel like the man.
As within, so without. As without (some great theads) so with in !
Elimidate
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Aztec
Master Don Juan
Originally posted by Demodulate
tactical swat gear works great for clubbing...
:crackup: A cop carrying a "club".
Derek Flint
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Don't try to dress like the younger guys - you'll look like a "tryhard" and will look out of place.
A nice shirt and slacks will do fine.
Leave that "peacocking" crap to the clowns
Eric Clapton
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Re: Re: for a guy in his 30s
Ditto, dress how you feel comfortable, but be stylish, don't try to look like a frat boy when you are 12 yrs. senior.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
DoubleA
Senior Don Juan
I agree.
Be comfortable. I mean I can tell you from experience there were times I walked into a club wearing a suit and got NO LOOKS. I MEAN NONE. Damn.
Then I realized as long as you're loose and confortable you'll have more enjoyable experience. Let's face it everyone is going into the place looking their best. It's not a fashion show.
Man, wear a nice shirt and trouser combination. Just like Flint said.
Find out if the place gets hot or has AC. If it's a sweat box then tank top T shirt undernearth.
Finally..F the dumb it. Use a fragrance very lightly. If it gets on your clothes the better.
HOLLA
Be comfortable. I mean I can tell you from experience there were times I walked into a club wearing a suit and got NO LOOKS. I MEAN NONE. Damn.
Then I realized as long as you're loose and confortable you'll have more enjoyable experience. Let's face it everyone is going into the place looking their best. It's not a fashion show.
Man, wear a nice shirt and trouser combination. Just like Flint said.
Find out if the place gets hot or has AC. If it's a sweat box then tank top T shirt undernearth.
Finally..F the dumb it. Use a fragrance very lightly. If it gets on your clothes the better.
HOLLA