“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Elimidate

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"Best" is subjective.

It depends on the type of club also the type of women you want to attact.

Let me ask you a questions...sit back relax, think of the club and act out in your mind striking up a great conversation with a HB. She is totaly into you and the you take her the sweaty dance floor...keep up for mojo now...she is all over you. Nicely done, she sends you a smile thats makes you feel you've just won the lottery..so you end up with a night of passion back at your place!

Which clubbing gear were you wearing?

Only you know the answer!

The key is to wear clothes that YOU love and make you feel confident. I could tell you to go out and buy my $1200 Boss jacket but who I am to tell you what to wear lol.

Here's my advice:

1) If in doubt, check out the clubs website and to see the environment you'll be in.

2) Although I rarely take womens advice, the times I do is when I go shopping for clothes. I trust the experts.

3) Where clothes that make you feel like the man.

As within, so without. As without (some great theads) so with in !

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Originally posted by tj
What is the best type of clubing gear too wear?
Don't try to dress like the younger guys - you'll look like a "tryhard" and will look out of place.

A nice shirt and slacks will do fine.

Leave that "peacocking" crap to the clowns
 

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Re: Re: for a guy in his 30s

Originally posted by Derek Flint
Don't try to dress like the younger guys - you'll look like a "tryhard" and will look out of place.

A nice shirt and slacks will do fine.

Leave that "peacocking" crap to the clowns
Ditto, dress how you feel comfortable, but be stylish, don't try to look like a frat boy when you are 12 yrs. senior.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I agree.

Be comfortable. I mean I can tell you from experience there were times I walked into a club wearing a suit and got NO LOOKS. I MEAN NONE. Damn.

Then I realized as long as you're loose and confortable you'll have more enjoyable experience. Let's face it everyone is going into the place looking their best. It's not a fashion show.

Man, wear a nice shirt and trouser combination. Just like Flint said.
Find out if the place gets hot or has AC. If it's a sweat box then tank top T shirt undernearth.

Finally..F the dumb it. Use a fragrance very lightly. If it gets on your clothes the better.

HOLLA
 
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