speed dawg
Master Don Juan
Hopefully not, but open to suggestions and updates...
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Football fans: Will Nick Saban be the coach at Alabama?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
I can think of 40 million reasons why it's gonna be a tough decision.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Saben took the money! I guess 32 million dollars and a coush 8 year position was too good to pass up.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
war eagle!!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
He get's a 6,000- 7,000 dollar bonus for every year he gets the tide to a bowl game!
Screw to he dolphins. I'm sure the thought Saben had running through his mind when he signed that contract was nothing less then "I'm rich! biatch!"
Screw to he dolphins. I'm sure the thought Saben had running through his mind when he signed that contract was nothing less then "I'm rich! biatch!"
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Got that money in the bank...
As a Dolphins fan, i'm glad to see him go. His track record of jumping ship made his decision pretty obvious to most people.
I'll admit, the money is almost too good to pass up. But to some, the prospect of resolving unfinished business is enough drive. At least he didn't muck around too much, we can get on with our off-season now.
I'll admit, the money is almost too good to pass up. But to some, the prospect of resolving unfinished business is enough drive. At least he didn't muck around too much, we can get on with our off-season now.
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Senior Don Juan
Penkitten, Please tell me that you're not an Awbarn (Auburn, just an inside joke) fan!!!penkitten said:
Cause I was born and raised in Tuscaloosa, AL
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
insanity
Master Don Juan
patriots comeback ruled tonite!!! i was at the gym and all the buff dudes were going for the other team and when the patriots won i nearly jumped off the stairmaster. they weren't impressed.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Whats up with the stupid Patriots crap?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
yes and i lived in tuscaloosa outskirts at one time and even had my second child at a tuscaloosa hospital .Faded Image said:
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Doesn't matter, Florida is gonna ruin everybody's s.hit again this year anyways! Go Gators!! :cheer: