"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Foolproof way to get all the Hot Babes to want you!

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I agree, it's a great ice breaker when you catch her eye.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Eternal

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Man, Hall of Fame post as always Oxide. Couldn't have said it better myself...Now...Please inform me what the hell that means before I get the urge to delete this piece of brilliant work. :D
 

Kineti[C]harm

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He used the WINK icon.... as in Winking is the perfect way to get a hot babe =)
 

Oxide

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Are you sure about the wink?
How about :p
 

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I actually have a system based on this.

I open with ;)

Then I make with the disarmingly friendly :cool:

Get her to :D a few times

Then I bust on her with a little :rolleyes:

Till she gives me the :eek: and hits me playfully

I pretend it hurts :( look puzzled :confused: and ask why she is so mean :mad:

She feels guilty and makes it all better by giving me :eek: in the backseat of her car.

While she is bobbing for nuts, we make eye contact and it all comes full circle with ;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Oxide

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come on guys, this is simple, really.
 

TesuqueRed

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Fingers, that is the shortest post you've ever made.

But then pictures speak a thousand words...Ok, my mistake, you're on par...
 
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