"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I agree, it's a great ice breaker when you catch her eye.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Eternal

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Man, Hall of Fame post as always Oxide. Couldn't have said it better myself...Now...Please inform me what the hell that means before I get the urge to delete this piece of brilliant work. :D
 

Kineti[C]harm

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He used the WINK icon.... as in Winking is the perfect way to get a hot babe =)
 

Oxide

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Are you sure about the wink?
How about :p
 

Señor Fingers

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I actually have a system based on this.

I open with ;)

Then I make with the disarmingly friendly :cool:

Get her to :D a few times

Then I bust on her with a little :rolleyes:

Till she gives me the :eek: and hits me playfully

I pretend it hurts :( look puzzled :confused: and ask why she is so mean :mad:

She feels guilty and makes it all better by giving me :eek: in the backseat of her car.

While she is bobbing for nuts, we make eye contact and it all comes full circle with ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Oxide

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come on guys, this is simple, really.
 

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Fingers, that is the shortest post you've ever made.

But then pictures speak a thousand words...Ok, my mistake, you're on par...
 
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