"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Focus on yourself first.

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
You're fvcking really reaching on this one.

'Step aside' is a far cry from telling someone to leave the forum or stop posting.

I can't believe I need to explain what I meant, but here goes:

I meant: Take notice, and listen. I'm going to post and you can't stop me.
Sorry man, I guess I have been hanging out with the older crowd, I just don't understand the new style slang these days. I will try and keep up,
note to self: make sure and watch eurotrip to catch up on the latest slang.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Don Juanabbe

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
THE PRIMARY REASON I'M HERE IS TO GET BETTER AT ATTRACTING AND SCORING WITH WOMEN.

I LIKE DATING AS MANY WOMEN AS POSSIBLE.

IF I WANTED A SELF EMPROVEMENT SITE, THEN I'D FIND ONE RELATING TO TO TONY ROBBINS.
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Just doesn't get it....:rolleyes:
 

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Guys, just let it go. He is obviously in a different stage. It is no use trying to convince someone of your beliefs. The more you try to convince him, the more he will rebell against it. You can try and explain them once and if he doesn't get it, he is not ready to hear it. Eventually he will get bored with laying different girls all the time and he will start to wonder: Is this it?

I respect the reason why he is here and i respect that he doesn't want to be forced into a different point of view. There is a time for everything.

Now everyone: ... b r e a t h e ... :D
 
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