"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Focus on yourself first.

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
You're fvcking really reaching on this one.

'Step aside' is a far cry from telling someone to leave the forum or stop posting.

I can't believe I need to explain what I meant, but here goes:

I meant: Take notice, and listen. I'm going to post and you can't stop me.
Sorry man, I guess I have been hanging out with the older crowd, I just don't understand the new style slang these days. I will try and keep up,
note to self: make sure and watch eurotrip to catch up on the latest slang.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Don Juanabbe

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Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
THE PRIMARY REASON I'M HERE IS TO GET BETTER AT ATTRACTING AND SCORING WITH WOMEN.

I LIKE DATING AS MANY WOMEN AS POSSIBLE.

IF I WANTED A SELF EMPROVEMENT SITE, THEN I'D FIND ONE RELATING TO TO TONY ROBBINS.
^^^^^^^^^^^^^
Just doesn't get it....:rolleyes:
 

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Guys, just let it go. He is obviously in a different stage. It is no use trying to convince someone of your beliefs. The more you try to convince him, the more he will rebell against it. You can try and explain them once and if he doesn't get it, he is not ready to hear it. Eventually he will get bored with laying different girls all the time and he will start to wonder: Is this it?

I respect the reason why he is here and i respect that he doesn't want to be forced into a different point of view. There is a time for everything.

Now everyone: ... b r e a t h e ... :D
 
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