"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FML: 95% of the females I think are attractive, are Lesbian.

AF77

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Type = Short hair or shaved head, tattoos or piercings, sort of dyke or rough looking. Not suicide girls, those are teh ghey to me. Anyone have any idea what this type is even called?
I find them ridiculously attractive, I really have no idea. It's probably some sort of deep psychological issue, but I don't seem to have any that I am aware of. I just like that type of chick, different strokes for different folks I guess?
I can pull "normal" tail like a pro; but it's even harder to pickup "my" type when you look like you just stepped off the set of Burn Notice.
Androgynous could definately somewhat describe them, though I don't like admitting it. Androgynous + edgy = I'd put a lot of effort into keeping a relationship with it. Just looking "non-female" isn't going to cut it.

/Rant
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Mad Ghost

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AF77 said:
Anyone have any idea what this type is even called?
Emo, Punk or Indie - either three or all.

Theres a girl at my Gym, she has the colourful tattoos, Half-Hispanic looking and has shaved the sides of her head, I think she is absolutely Gorgeousss, I haven't seen her for about a week to talk it up. I tried with a few of them and all I got back was that they were single but not looking and that they don't have much in common with anybody outside that Indie/Emo/Punk-type community who follows them to Gigs and Fests and pick flowers in the park, but I'm not about to tell you, not to try.
 

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I LOVE women with short hair.

A short red head and i'd probably nut on myself.

I think Julianne Nicholson, the chick who used to play on law and order CI last season is just .. i'd eat her.. just throw me some hot sauce and give me a fork.
 

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I love edgey indie chicks to all my heart's content, but the ones I prefer are straight. The one major stylistic difference is I hate butchy short hair, shaved heads, mohawks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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