"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FML: 95% of the females I think are attractive, are Lesbian.

AF77

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Type = Short hair or shaved head, tattoos or piercings, sort of dyke or rough looking. Not suicide girls, those are teh ghey to me. Anyone have any idea what this type is even called?
I find them ridiculously attractive, I really have no idea. It's probably some sort of deep psychological issue, but I don't seem to have any that I am aware of. I just like that type of chick, different strokes for different folks I guess?
I can pull "normal" tail like a pro; but it's even harder to pickup "my" type when you look like you just stepped off the set of Burn Notice.
Androgynous could definately somewhat describe them, though I don't like admitting it. Androgynous + edgy = I'd put a lot of effort into keeping a relationship with it. Just looking "non-female" isn't going to cut it.

/Rant
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Mad Ghost

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AF77 said:
Anyone have any idea what this type is even called?
Emo, Punk or Indie - either three or all.

Theres a girl at my Gym, she has the colourful tattoos, Half-Hispanic looking and has shaved the sides of her head, I think she is absolutely Gorgeousss, I haven't seen her for about a week to talk it up. I tried with a few of them and all I got back was that they were single but not looking and that they don't have much in common with anybody outside that Indie/Emo/Punk-type community who follows them to Gigs and Fests and pick flowers in the park, but I'm not about to tell you, not to try.
 

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I LOVE women with short hair.

A short red head and i'd probably nut on myself.

I think Julianne Nicholson, the chick who used to play on law and order CI last season is just .. i'd eat her.. just throw me some hot sauce and give me a fork.
 

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I love edgey indie chicks to all my heart's content, but the ones I prefer are straight. The one major stylistic difference is I hate butchy short hair, shaved heads, mohawks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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