"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Flying solo tomorrow night, any tips?

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MrCode

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Another aspect related to this is that in my case at least, all my friends are AFC. So if I go out with them I feel like they are totally dragging me down.

I need to meet some fellow DJs (or even DJs in training which is what I consider myself.) Just someone with at least half a clue that could be a decent wing man.

Until I meet such a person though, I'd be better off alone than with AFC friends.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Thanks to Mind Over Matter for posting the link to the Gunwitch site... good info in there, I bookmarked it for a more thorough reading later. While I sometimes get frustrated with this site, it's references like these which make it worthwhile.
 
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