"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Flying solo tomorrow night, any tips?

MrCode

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Another aspect related to this is that in my case at least, all my friends are AFC. So if I go out with them I feel like they are totally dragging me down.

I need to meet some fellow DJs (or even DJs in training which is what I consider myself.) Just someone with at least half a clue that could be a decent wing man.

Until I meet such a person though, I'd be better off alone than with AFC friends.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thanks to Mind Over Matter for posting the link to the Gunwitch site... good info in there, I bookmarked it for a more thorough reading later. While I sometimes get frustrated with this site, it's references like these which make it worthwhile.
 
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