"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Flying solo tomorrow night, any tips?

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MrCode

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Another aspect related to this is that in my case at least, all my friends are AFC. So if I go out with them I feel like they are totally dragging me down.

I need to meet some fellow DJs (or even DJs in training which is what I consider myself.) Just someone with at least half a clue that could be a decent wing man.

Until I meet such a person though, I'd be better off alone than with AFC friends.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thanks to Mind Over Matter for posting the link to the Gunwitch site... good info in there, I bookmarked it for a more thorough reading later. While I sometimes get frustrated with this site, it's references like these which make it worthwhile.
 
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