"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Flirting with boss

n00bPimp

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I just started working at a department store, and I have the privilege of having the hottest chick in the store as my boss. Shes 23, im 21. We've talked about non-business related topics and I've taken her out to lunch once. What bothers me sometimes is that I have to do everything she tells me to, there's no way of acting like an alpha male, and doing everything on my own terms, etc. Its hard to say no and act non submissive b/c I would feel like I'm disobeying her authority. I was wondering how do I go about this? Has anyone been in this predictament and what did you do about it?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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TurboLover

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Yes, been there. If you know what your doing there, then make suggestions after being asked to do something.

Example: Hey go do ......, then you say alright and I am going to do ...... after I'm done.

Then she will realize ok this cat knows what to do, so I don't have to micro-manage his ass.

If you hangout with her outside of work, (your grown I don't have to tell you about company ink) you lead and run the show.
 
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