I just started working at a department store, and I have the privilege of having the hottest chick in the store as my boss. Shes 23, im 21. We've talked about non-business related topics and I've taken her out to lunch once. What bothers me sometimes is that I have to do everything she tells me to, there's no way of acting like an alpha male, and doing everything on my own terms, etc. Its hard to say no and act non submissive b/c I would feel like I'm disobeying her authority. I was wondering how do I go about this? Has anyone been in this predictament and what did you do about it?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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