I just started working at a department store, and I have the privilege of having the hottest chick in the store as my boss. Shes 23, im 21. We've talked about non-business related topics and I've taken her out to lunch once. What bothers me sometimes is that I have to do everything she tells me to, there's no way of acting like an alpha male, and doing everything on my own terms, etc. Its hard to say no and act non submissive b/c I would feel like I'm disobeying her authority. I was wondering how do I go about this? Has anyone been in this predictament and what did you do about it?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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