"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Flirting with boss

n00bPimp

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I just started working at a department store, and I have the privilege of having the hottest chick in the store as my boss. Shes 23, im 21. We've talked about non-business related topics and I've taken her out to lunch once. What bothers me sometimes is that I have to do everything she tells me to, there's no way of acting like an alpha male, and doing everything on my own terms, etc. Its hard to say no and act non submissive b/c I would feel like I'm disobeying her authority. I was wondering how do I go about this? Has anyone been in this predictament and what did you do about it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TurboLover

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Yes, been there. If you know what your doing there, then make suggestions after being asked to do something.

Example: Hey go do ......, then you say alright and I am going to do ...... after I'm done.

Then she will realize ok this cat knows what to do, so I don't have to micro-manage his ass.

If you hangout with her outside of work, (your grown I don't have to tell you about company ink) you lead and run the show.
 
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