"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Flirting via text messaging with a girl i've never met

Jokerlsk

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Hey guys, today at youth group we went bowling and ate at some restaurant. While we were there i decided to text on my friend's (she's a girl) phone. i started randomly texting one of her friends and she seemed pretty interested. She sent me photos of herself and we flirted. I would give her a hb6.5. The thing is this girl goes to a private school (the school the girl at my church goes) and i've never met her in person. I kinda wanna hookup with this girl; do you guys have any advice on how i could go about this??? BTW i don't have texting on my phone but i got her number and she told me to call her anytime. ideas on how i can get the convo started since i've never talked to her on the phone before? Do you guys have any jokes i could make to loosen her up?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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chinwaggler

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you brain can't think up jokes even when you have all the time in the world to text?
 

AKA FLEX

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Four words, and I've said it before: whatever comes to mind.

Just call her and start talking about whatever is on your mind. Scripting out a phone conversation with a chick before you call never works because the actual convo never follows the course you anticipate.

Just call her, be loose, and chat.
 

Jokerlsk

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Yeah, so i called her and she wanted to hang out but i decided to decline her offer. Alot of my friends told me she was a wh0r3 and already had a boyfriend. I'm not into taking other guys girls.......
 
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