“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Flirting via text messaging with a girl i've never met

Jokerlsk

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Hey guys, today at youth group we went bowling and ate at some restaurant. While we were there i decided to text on my friend's (she's a girl) phone. i started randomly texting one of her friends and she seemed pretty interested. She sent me photos of herself and we flirted. I would give her a hb6.5. The thing is this girl goes to a private school (the school the girl at my church goes) and i've never met her in person. I kinda wanna hookup with this girl; do you guys have any advice on how i could go about this??? BTW i don't have texting on my phone but i got her number and she told me to call her anytime. ideas on how i can get the convo started since i've never talked to her on the phone before? Do you guys have any jokes i could make to loosen her up?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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chinwaggler

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you brain can't think up jokes even when you have all the time in the world to text?
 

AKA FLEX

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Four words, and I've said it before: whatever comes to mind.

Just call her and start talking about whatever is on your mind. Scripting out a phone conversation with a chick before you call never works because the actual convo never follows the course you anticipate.

Just call her, be loose, and chat.
 

Jokerlsk

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Yeah, so i called her and she wanted to hang out but i decided to decline her offer. Alot of my friends told me she was a wh0r3 and already had a boyfriend. I'm not into taking other guys girls.......
 
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