"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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fast_n_furious

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meeting up girls through instant messengers and in chat rooms n all, is becoming so common, the next step if all goes well, is phone and then usually meeting. what would be the diff. ways, u wld use to hook a girl through msn n all, or what type of q;s u will like to ask, which wld make u sound really kool and diff. from others ( from a guys perspective) ?
hey wld b kool, if v can gather a list of some really kool q's and techniques, and would be gr8, if girls could rate them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tactic

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GRAMMAR ALERT

Firstly, all the things you mentioned has been done by guys tons and tons of times before. There are tons and tons of ugly chicks on the net.

Secondly, if you want to know what to say.. you first need to know how to relax. Then you will know what to say without realizing. Just be confident.

Thirdly, please do not talk AIM here. And I mean it...
 

diablo

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Originally posted by fast_n_furious
meeting up girls through instant messengers and in chat rooms n all, is becoming so common, the next step if all goes well, is phone and then usually meeting. what would be the diff. ways, u wld use to hook a girl through msn n all, or what type of q;s u will like to ask, which wld make u sound really kool and diff. from others ( from a guys perspective) ?
hey wld b kool, if v can gather a list of some really kool q's and techniques, and would be gr8, if girls could rate them.
For the most part, unless you're going after 13 year olds, girls want someone who comes off as sounding intelligent, interesting, and worldly. Your post, or rather the grammer contained in it, is a perfect example of how *not* to speak.
 

Kourt

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lol you guys are harsh, but then again, so are women
 

Void

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...well i use aim too but try not to use so many aim terms...

well just talk normally on aim as you usually do when youre speaking to someone.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Some suggestions:

Totally eliminate all traces of net-speak from your mind. Using it on chatrooms or anywhere else makes you look like a dweeb. Use real English. Have some class.
You asked if we could give you advice for girls to rate? See, if you had read the DJ Bible, you would have discovered that women say one thing and mean another. Having them rate our techniques would be meaningless. If women knew what they were attracted to, men would buy cosmo.
 

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u jus haf ta get dem 2 do cybersex n u'll be kool
 
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