"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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fast_n_furious

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meeting up girls through instant messengers and in chat rooms n all, is becoming so common, the next step if all goes well, is phone and then usually meeting. what would be the diff. ways, u wld use to hook a girl through msn n all, or what type of q;s u will like to ask, which wld make u sound really kool and diff. from others ( from a guys perspective) ?
hey wld b kool, if v can gather a list of some really kool q's and techniques, and would be gr8, if girls could rate them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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tactic

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GRAMMAR ALERT

Firstly, all the things you mentioned has been done by guys tons and tons of times before. There are tons and tons of ugly chicks on the net.

Secondly, if you want to know what to say.. you first need to know how to relax. Then you will know what to say without realizing. Just be confident.

Thirdly, please do not talk AIM here. And I mean it...
 

diablo

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Originally posted by fast_n_furious
meeting up girls through instant messengers and in chat rooms n all, is becoming so common, the next step if all goes well, is phone and then usually meeting. what would be the diff. ways, u wld use to hook a girl through msn n all, or what type of q;s u will like to ask, which wld make u sound really kool and diff. from others ( from a guys perspective) ?
hey wld b kool, if v can gather a list of some really kool q's and techniques, and would be gr8, if girls could rate them.
For the most part, unless you're going after 13 year olds, girls want someone who comes off as sounding intelligent, interesting, and worldly. Your post, or rather the grammer contained in it, is a perfect example of how *not* to speak.
 

Kourt

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lol you guys are harsh, but then again, so are women
 

Void

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...well i use aim too but try not to use so many aim terms...

well just talk normally on aim as you usually do when youre speaking to someone.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Luveno

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Some suggestions:

Totally eliminate all traces of net-speak from your mind. Using it on chatrooms or anywhere else makes you look like a dweeb. Use real English. Have some class.
You asked if we could give you advice for girls to rate? See, if you had read the DJ Bible, you would have discovered that women say one thing and mean another. Having them rate our techniques would be meaningless. If women knew what they were attracted to, men would buy cosmo.
 

diplomatic_lie

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u jus haf ta get dem 2 do cybersex n u'll be kool
 
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