"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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fast_n_furious

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meeting up girls through instant messengers and in chat rooms n all, is becoming so common, the next step if all goes well, is phone and then usually meeting. what would be the diff. ways, u wld use to hook a girl through msn n all, or what type of q;s u will like to ask, which wld make u sound really kool and diff. from others ( from a guys perspective) ?
hey wld b kool, if v can gather a list of some really kool q's and techniques, and would be gr8, if girls could rate them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tactic

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GRAMMAR ALERT

Firstly, all the things you mentioned has been done by guys tons and tons of times before. There are tons and tons of ugly chicks on the net.

Secondly, if you want to know what to say.. you first need to know how to relax. Then you will know what to say without realizing. Just be confident.

Thirdly, please do not talk AIM here. And I mean it...
 

diablo

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Originally posted by fast_n_furious
meeting up girls through instant messengers and in chat rooms n all, is becoming so common, the next step if all goes well, is phone and then usually meeting. what would be the diff. ways, u wld use to hook a girl through msn n all, or what type of q;s u will like to ask, which wld make u sound really kool and diff. from others ( from a guys perspective) ?
hey wld b kool, if v can gather a list of some really kool q's and techniques, and would be gr8, if girls could rate them.
For the most part, unless you're going after 13 year olds, girls want someone who comes off as sounding intelligent, interesting, and worldly. Your post, or rather the grammer contained in it, is a perfect example of how *not* to speak.
 

Kourt

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lol you guys are harsh, but then again, so are women
 

Void

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...well i use aim too but try not to use so many aim terms...

well just talk normally on aim as you usually do when youre speaking to someone.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Luveno

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Some suggestions:

Totally eliminate all traces of net-speak from your mind. Using it on chatrooms or anywhere else makes you look like a dweeb. Use real English. Have some class.
You asked if we could give you advice for girls to rate? See, if you had read the DJ Bible, you would have discovered that women say one thing and mean another. Having them rate our techniques would be meaningless. If women knew what they were attracted to, men would buy cosmo.
 

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u jus haf ta get dem 2 do cybersex n u'll be kool
 
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