"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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flirting through IM'S

fast_n_furious

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meeting up girls through instant messengers and in chat rooms n all, is becoming so common, the next step if all goes well, is phone and then usually meeting. what would be the diff. ways, u wld use to hook a girl through msn n all, or what type of q;s u will like to ask, which wld make u sound really kool and diff. from others ( from a guys perspective) ?
hey wld b kool, if v can gather a list of some really kool q's and techniques, and would be gr8, if girls could rate them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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tactic

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GRAMMAR ALERT

Firstly, all the things you mentioned has been done by guys tons and tons of times before. There are tons and tons of ugly chicks on the net.

Secondly, if you want to know what to say.. you first need to know how to relax. Then you will know what to say without realizing. Just be confident.

Thirdly, please do not talk AIM here. And I mean it...
 

diablo

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Originally posted by fast_n_furious
meeting up girls through instant messengers and in chat rooms n all, is becoming so common, the next step if all goes well, is phone and then usually meeting. what would be the diff. ways, u wld use to hook a girl through msn n all, or what type of q;s u will like to ask, which wld make u sound really kool and diff. from others ( from a guys perspective) ?
hey wld b kool, if v can gather a list of some really kool q's and techniques, and would be gr8, if girls could rate them.
For the most part, unless you're going after 13 year olds, girls want someone who comes off as sounding intelligent, interesting, and worldly. Your post, or rather the grammer contained in it, is a perfect example of how *not* to speak.
 

Kourt

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lol you guys are harsh, but then again, so are women
 

Void

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...well i use aim too but try not to use so many aim terms...

well just talk normally on aim as you usually do when youre speaking to someone.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Luveno

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Some suggestions:

Totally eliminate all traces of net-speak from your mind. Using it on chatrooms or anywhere else makes you look like a dweeb. Use real English. Have some class.
You asked if we could give you advice for girls to rate? See, if you had read the DJ Bible, you would have discovered that women say one thing and mean another. Having them rate our techniques would be meaningless. If women knew what they were attracted to, men would buy cosmo.
 

diplomatic_lie

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u jus haf ta get dem 2 do cybersex n u'll be kool
 
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