"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Flirting: Keeping the Magic

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When I approach women I have the same routine/rhythem/pattern I have developed..

often on the fly I develop new techniques...which I add to my tool kit...

However when I re-use some tools..sometimes I feel it lacks the initial spark/charm when I first developed it....

Do other DJ's encounter same problems of looking like a genuine DJ in your target's eyes...

when I repeat my techniques...I feel there is not the same amount of magic...

I feel I am most effective at Pick Ups if I create a magical vibe with an HB...

How do I keep the magic/genuineness/sincereity in my flirting with women?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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By only using it when it's geniune. That's why I never use those 'patterns'.
 
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I don't think he is talking about patterns, I think he is talking about settling into a routine. A couple of thoughts.

Think of yourself in control: Even though your routine seems old to you it is not old to them.

The real way to get rid of this is to focus on the woman, think of her as your partner in the flirtation or seduction. Get to know what makes her special and that will translate into each separate women being special in your eyes.
 
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excellent advice comote!
i guess you see where I am coming from!
 
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to keep the sincerity imagine you banging her and youll get pretty sincere when flirting with her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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