"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Flirting: Keeping the Magic

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When I approach women I have the same routine/rhythem/pattern I have developed..

often on the fly I develop new techniques...which I add to my tool kit...

However when I re-use some tools..sometimes I feel it lacks the initial spark/charm when I first developed it....

Do other DJ's encounter same problems of looking like a genuine DJ in your target's eyes...

when I repeat my techniques...I feel there is not the same amount of magic...

I feel I am most effective at Pick Ups if I create a magical vibe with an HB...

How do I keep the magic/genuineness/sincereity in my flirting with women?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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By only using it when it's geniune. That's why I never use those 'patterns'.
 
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I don't think he is talking about patterns, I think he is talking about settling into a routine. A couple of thoughts.

Think of yourself in control: Even though your routine seems old to you it is not old to them.

The real way to get rid of this is to focus on the woman, think of her as your partner in the flirtation or seduction. Get to know what makes her special and that will translate into each separate women being special in your eyes.
 
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excellent advice comote!
i guess you see where I am coming from!
 
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to keep the sincerity imagine you banging her and youll get pretty sincere when flirting with her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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