"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I have a huge problem. Anytime i meet some girl and try flirting with her, either come on too genereal (making me look like some afc or keeping me in the friend zone) or i come on too strong (making me come off as some needy creep). So basically, the result is they immediately know im interested (taking away the mystery) but i just look like a shy needy afc. Whats the key to flirting with a girl the moment you meet her, letting her know your interested (while still staying mysterious) while keeping the conversation in your control, and not coming off too general and needy, like your trying to flirt with her but dont have the confidence.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jus be nice then ****y then nice then ****y!

You gta say she looks nice, then like 'well u look ok' an smile, if shes bein a hard ass then jus play the game wit her!

When your talkin to her, ju sleave straight away, or talk to people on the phone then wen she asks say 'ah its nothing, i jus gta do something'

Pretend your life is like a secret life yeah?! and wat ure doin is ure keepin that life a secret, an then ask her loadsa questions about herself, then wen she asks you just blow it off, be awesome, like you just dont giv a ****!
 
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JayUK said:
Jus be nice then ****y then nice then ****y!

You gta say she looks nice, then like 'well u look ok' an smile, if shes bein a hard ass then jus play the game wit her!

When your talkin to her, ju sleave straight away, or talk to people on the phone then wen she asks say 'ah its nothing, i jus gta do something'

Pretend your life is like a secret life yeah?! and wat ure doin is ure keepin that life a secret, an then ask her loadsa questions about herself, then wen she asks you just blow it off, be awesome, like you just dont giv a ****!
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Thanks great post. Secret life. sounds foolproof
 
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don't take advice from a guy in england who wishes he was in florida. cheap flights to bulgaria, the baltics, slovakia, ukraine, croatia, and poland....BUT...nope, the guy wants to go to florida. uh, wrong choice.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Be willing to walk away
 
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