"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Flirting Dilema

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I have a huge problem. Anytime i meet some girl and try flirting with her, either come on too genereal (making me look like some afc or keeping me in the friend zone) or i come on too strong (making me come off as some needy creep). So basically, the result is they immediately know im interested (taking away the mystery) but i just look like a shy needy afc. Whats the key to flirting with a girl the moment you meet her, letting her know your interested (while still staying mysterious) while keeping the conversation in your control, and not coming off too general and needy, like your trying to flirt with her but dont have the confidence.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jus be nice then ****y then nice then ****y!

You gta say she looks nice, then like 'well u look ok' an smile, if shes bein a hard ass then jus play the game wit her!

When your talkin to her, ju sleave straight away, or talk to people on the phone then wen she asks say 'ah its nothing, i jus gta do something'

Pretend your life is like a secret life yeah?! and wat ure doin is ure keepin that life a secret, an then ask her loadsa questions about herself, then wen she asks you just blow it off, be awesome, like you just dont giv a ****!
 
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JayUK said:
Jus be nice then ****y then nice then ****y!

You gta say she looks nice, then like 'well u look ok' an smile, if shes bein a hard ass then jus play the game wit her!

When your talkin to her, ju sleave straight away, or talk to people on the phone then wen she asks say 'ah its nothing, i jus gta do something'

Pretend your life is like a secret life yeah?! and wat ure doin is ure keepin that life a secret, an then ask her loadsa questions about herself, then wen she asks you just blow it off, be awesome, like you just dont giv a ****!
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Thanks great post. Secret life. sounds foolproof
 
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don't take advice from a guy in england who wishes he was in florida. cheap flights to bulgaria, the baltics, slovakia, ukraine, croatia, and poland....BUT...nope, the guy wants to go to florida. uh, wrong choice.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Be willing to walk away
 
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