"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Flirting

I have a huge problem. Anytime i meet some girl and try flirting with her, either come on too genereal (making me look like some afc or keeping me in the friend zone) or i come on too strong (making me come off as some needy creep). So basically, the result is they immediately know im interested (taking away the mystery) but i just look like a shy needy afc. Whats the key to flirting with a girl the moment you meet her, letting her know your interested (while still staying mysterious) while keeping the conversation in your control, and not coming off too general and needy, like your trying to flirt with her but dont have the confidence.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Jus be nice then ****y then nice then ****y!

You gta say she looks nice, then like 'well u look ok' an smile, if shes bein a hard ass then jus play the game wit her!

When your talkin to her, ju sleave straight away, or talk to people on the phone then wen she asks say 'ah its nothing, i jus gta do something'

Pretend your life is like a secret life yeah?! and wat ure doin is ure keepin that life a secret, an then ask her loadsa questions about herself, then wen she asks you just blow it off, be awesome, like you just dont giv a ****!
 
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JayUK said:
Jus be nice then ****y then nice then ****y!

You gta say she looks nice, then like 'well u look ok' an smile, if shes bein a hard ass then jus play the game wit her!

When your talkin to her, ju sleave straight away, or talk to people on the phone then wen she asks say 'ah its nothing, i jus gta do something'

Pretend your life is like a secret life yeah?! and wat ure doin is ure keepin that life a secret, an then ask her loadsa questions about herself, then wen she asks you just blow it off, be awesome, like you just dont giv a ****!
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Thanks great post. Secret life. sounds foolproof
 
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don't take advice from a guy in england who wishes he was in florida. cheap flights to bulgaria, the baltics, slovakia, ukraine, croatia, and poland....BUT...nope, the guy wants to go to florida. uh, wrong choice.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Be willing to walk away
 
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