"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Flirting 101

TheMan425

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When I flirt with a girl, i often smile, tease her ALOT, throw stuff at her like little pieces of paper, porpusely bump into her, ask her crazy questions like "Have you ever licked your own boob?" or " What would you do if i got naked, spread my legs and said f*** me beautiful?" or a variation of some sort. Usually i get a "what??" or "why do you ask these questions??" along with a laugh or a smile, but if theyre in a bad mood sometimes they give me an annoyed look or something if i do something physical, so i read her body language before doing anything. Crazy questions are always fun, so far i havent got a bad reaction.;)

What are some of your techniques and how do they respond?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bvbidd

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Have you ****ed any of these girls? Or do they just think your insane?

Not all of that sounds like flirting. Some of it's just weird.

Not saying you don't get good reactions..
 

TheMan425

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no, they just think im funny, maybe a little crazy. anyways im obviously on this site to get tips, not give them. so if you have some good tips on flirting, ide be delighted to hear them.

btw, i forgot to mention my ideas are getting me nowhere but in the friend zone. so like i said, ide like to hear other techniques.
 

oakraiderz2

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You sound a little eccentric. Tone it down a little. I do the samething but im not insane...like you probably appear to be.
 

TheMan425

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lol, i guess you can say that. but just for the record i havent actually asked anyone those exact questions, i was just trying to think of a funny example. anyone else?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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