"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Flirting 101

TheMan425

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When I flirt with a girl, i often smile, tease her ALOT, throw stuff at her like little pieces of paper, porpusely bump into her, ask her crazy questions like "Have you ever licked your own boob?" or " What would you do if i got naked, spread my legs and said f*** me beautiful?" or a variation of some sort. Usually i get a "what??" or "why do you ask these questions??" along with a laugh or a smile, but if theyre in a bad mood sometimes they give me an annoyed look or something if i do something physical, so i read her body language before doing anything. Crazy questions are always fun, so far i havent got a bad reaction.;)

What are some of your techniques and how do they respond?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Bvbidd

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Have you ****ed any of these girls? Or do they just think your insane?

Not all of that sounds like flirting. Some of it's just weird.

Not saying you don't get good reactions..
 

TheMan425

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no, they just think im funny, maybe a little crazy. anyways im obviously on this site to get tips, not give them. so if you have some good tips on flirting, ide be delighted to hear them.

btw, i forgot to mention my ideas are getting me nowhere but in the friend zone. so like i said, ide like to hear other techniques.
 

oakraiderz2

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You sound a little eccentric. Tone it down a little. I do the samething but im not insane...like you probably appear to be.
 

TheMan425

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lol, i guess you can say that. but just for the record i havent actually asked anyone those exact questions, i was just trying to think of a funny example. anyone else?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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