"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Flaking women?

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I think I'm trying to justify this flaky woman in my mind but has anyone had a women flake only to find out later that she did it because she was too shy or some other reason.

Like she really digs you but is too shy to follow through on a date. Or she has a pimple so she flakes on you. Or she is ready to have sex with you but gets her period so she flakes on the date.

I guess what I'm asking is, is there any instances when a women flakes is a good thing?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sometimes it can be down to nervousness or other reasonable things, but it's more to do with the indecisiveness of women.

I've written a reply to this thread that might help...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1757334#post1757334


It's frustrating I know, but best thing to do is just be cool and don't overanalyse. You'll send yourself mad trying to understand the actions of women. :)
 
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well I have some sisters, and it´s obvious why women get always late, because they want to look perfect, so they took really a lot of time.... if they feel their hair is weird or some other sh*t like that, they won´t meet you....
 
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