Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Flaking women?

Canadian Catnip

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I think I'm trying to justify this flaky woman in my mind but has anyone had a women flake only to find out later that she did it because she was too shy or some other reason.

Like she really digs you but is too shy to follow through on a date. Or she has a pimple so she flakes on you. Or she is ready to have sex with you but gets her period so she flakes on the date.

I guess what I'm asking is, is there any instances when a women flakes is a good thing?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jariel

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Sometimes it can be down to nervousness or other reasonable things, but it's more to do with the indecisiveness of women.

I've written a reply to this thread that might help...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1757334#post1757334


It's frustrating I know, but best thing to do is just be cool and don't overanalyse. You'll send yourself mad trying to understand the actions of women. :)
 

JdelaSilviera

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well I have some sisters, and it´s obvious why women get always late, because they want to look perfect, so they took really a lot of time.... if they feel their hair is weird or some other sh*t like that, they won´t meet you....
 
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