"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Flaking women?

Canadian Catnip

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I think I'm trying to justify this flaky woman in my mind but has anyone had a women flake only to find out later that she did it because she was too shy or some other reason.

Like she really digs you but is too shy to follow through on a date. Or she has a pimple so she flakes on you. Or she is ready to have sex with you but gets her period so she flakes on the date.

I guess what I'm asking is, is there any instances when a women flakes is a good thing?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jariel

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Sometimes it can be down to nervousness or other reasonable things, but it's more to do with the indecisiveness of women.

I've written a reply to this thread that might help...

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1757334#post1757334


It's frustrating I know, but best thing to do is just be cool and don't overanalyse. You'll send yourself mad trying to understand the actions of women. :)
 

JdelaSilviera

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well I have some sisters, and it´s obvious why women get always late, because they want to look perfect, so they took really a lot of time.... if they feel their hair is weird or some other sh*t like that, they won´t meet you....
 
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