Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Flaking...It's In Their Blood

VladPatton

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My sister began bıtching today about how these girls nowadays are just a bunch of immature brats ending the rant in "what a bunch of stupid kuntz!" I asked what the hell happened, and she tells me she got flaked on by an out of state friend. She was texting up until the night prior to their hang out day and all of a sudden she went ghost. Nothing. No cancelling, not a word about another meetup, zero. Her friend left today and that was that, and my sister is baffled on how these girls can act the way they do. She couldn't believe how things just vaporized.

I, of course, start laughing my aṣṣ off. I told her "now you know what us guys go through!

Girls will flake on their own kind, their moms, dads, cousins, grandparents, the guy from the pharmacy who just got her digits, and on you. I don't know if it's due to growing up on the internet and thinking people can just go away with a click of a button or what, but it is now apparently coded in their DNA.

So, fellow So Suavers, don't get overly upset at these attention-seeking, food photographing, Twitter-Facebook-obsessed females of today when they flake, lie, and ignore you. In fact, expect it. If things go well consider it a bonus. If things don't, you just got rid of one more useless female that need not be in your life. Either way, you still win.

Thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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rhythmic

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To be fair, a lot of guys I know are awful flakes. One of my friends is in my phone as "Jon the Flake".

But people are of course less likely to flake from low-pressure, fun situations that they reckon they're going to gain something from... So stay away from creating the opposite and people shouldn't flake.
 
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