"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Flaking...It's In Their Blood

VladPatton

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My sister began bıtching today about how these girls nowadays are just a bunch of immature brats ending the rant in "what a bunch of stupid kuntz!" I asked what the hell happened, and she tells me she got flaked on by an out of state friend. She was texting up until the night prior to their hang out day and all of a sudden she went ghost. Nothing. No cancelling, not a word about another meetup, zero. Her friend left today and that was that, and my sister is baffled on how these girls can act the way they do. She couldn't believe how things just vaporized.

I, of course, start laughing my aṣṣ off. I told her "now you know what us guys go through!

Girls will flake on their own kind, their moms, dads, cousins, grandparents, the guy from the pharmacy who just got her digits, and on you. I don't know if it's due to growing up on the internet and thinking people can just go away with a click of a button or what, but it is now apparently coded in their DNA.

So, fellow So Suavers, don't get overly upset at these attention-seeking, food photographing, Twitter-Facebook-obsessed females of today when they flake, lie, and ignore you. In fact, expect it. If things go well consider it a bonus. If things don't, you just got rid of one more useless female that need not be in your life. Either way, you still win.

Thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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rhythmic

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To be fair, a lot of guys I know are awful flakes. One of my friends is in my phone as "Jon the Flake".

But people are of course less likely to flake from low-pressure, fun situations that they reckon they're going to gain something from... So stay away from creating the opposite and people shouldn't flake.
 
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