"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ok, to make a long story short, I was talking/dating with this girl for almost 3 weeks. Well the conversation of sex came up, well, not really at first. We were talking one night and she said that she would like to get to know me better.

So, bells went off in my head that she was talking about sex. (most of you know the distinct sound that bell has)

So she tells me these things that we could do so we could spend more time together, but the way she was saying it she would also say "or what else could we do?" like that, and I wasn't gonna just come out and say sex so I mentioned stuff like just me and her and candles and soft music and touching and things of that sort.

Well she still says she's not sure what I mean, so I finally say f*** it and ask her about a physical relationship. She says "sex?"
And then hangs up on me and says its not gonna work out between us now that she knows thats all I want.

So should I call her back and say thats not what I was talking about and go about another approach or just "next"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by B-Real
Ok, to make a long story short, I was talking/dating with this girl for almost 3 weeks. Well the conversation of sex came up, well, not really at first. We were talking one night and she said that she would like to get to know me better.

So, bells went off in my head that she was talking about sex. (most of you know the distinct sound that bell has)

So she tells me these things that we could do so we could spend more time together, but the way she was saying it she would also say "or what else could we do?" like that, and I wasn't gonna just come out and say sex so I mentioned stuff like just me and her and candles and soft music and touching and things of that sort.

Well she still says she's not sure what I mean, so I finally say f*** it and ask her about a physical relationship. She says "sex?"
And then hangs up on me and says its not gonna work out between us now that she knows thats all I want.

So should I call her back and say thats not what I was talking about and go about another approach or just "next"
You should stop playing games. Lying is playing games. Men dont play games, boys do.

If you feel like calling her back do it, but dont lie about it. If that is all you want move on if that isnt express that. In the long run lying never turns out good and its a sign of COWARDICE".
 

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She sounds extremely immature, boardline insane. Or 15 years old. Even if she didn't want to have sex, she could have easily explained that she wasn't ready for that, or passed it off as a joke to change the subject. For her to come to the conclusion that "all you want is sex" based on THAT comment, she must have a jumbled fvcking brain.

She did you a favor by hanging up. She would have drove you up a wall before you got the chance to smash that pvssy, I can guarantee you that.
 

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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