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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

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B-Real

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Ok, to make a long story short, I was talking/dating with this girl for almost 3 weeks. Well the conversation of sex came up, well, not really at first. We were talking one night and she said that she would like to get to know me better.

So, bells went off in my head that she was talking about sex. (most of you know the distinct sound that bell has)

So she tells me these things that we could do so we could spend more time together, but the way she was saying it she would also say "or what else could we do?" like that, and I wasn't gonna just come out and say sex so I mentioned stuff like just me and her and candles and soft music and touching and things of that sort.

Well she still says she's not sure what I mean, so I finally say f*** it and ask her about a physical relationship. She says "sex?"
And then hangs up on me and says its not gonna work out between us now that she knows thats all I want.

So should I call her back and say thats not what I was talking about and go about another approach or just "next"
 

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Originally posted by B-Real
Ok, to make a long story short, I was talking/dating with this girl for almost 3 weeks. Well the conversation of sex came up, well, not really at first. We were talking one night and she said that she would like to get to know me better.

So, bells went off in my head that she was talking about sex. (most of you know the distinct sound that bell has)

So she tells me these things that we could do so we could spend more time together, but the way she was saying it she would also say "or what else could we do?" like that, and I wasn't gonna just come out and say sex so I mentioned stuff like just me and her and candles and soft music and touching and things of that sort.

Well she still says she's not sure what I mean, so I finally say f*** it and ask her about a physical relationship. She says "sex?"
And then hangs up on me and says its not gonna work out between us now that she knows thats all I want.

So should I call her back and say thats not what I was talking about and go about another approach or just "next"
You should stop playing games. Lying is playing games. Men dont play games, boys do.

If you feel like calling her back do it, but dont lie about it. If that is all you want move on if that isnt express that. In the long run lying never turns out good and its a sign of COWARDICE".
 

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She sounds extremely immature, boardline insane. Or 15 years old. Even if she didn't want to have sex, she could have easily explained that she wasn't ready for that, or passed it off as a joke to change the subject. For her to come to the conclusion that "all you want is sex" based on THAT comment, she must have a jumbled fvcking brain.

She did you a favor by hanging up. She would have drove you up a wall before you got the chance to smash that pvssy, I can guarantee you that.
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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