"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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B-Real

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Ok, to make a long story short, I was talking/dating with this girl for almost 3 weeks. Well the conversation of sex came up, well, not really at first. We were talking one night and she said that she would like to get to know me better.

So, bells went off in my head that she was talking about sex. (most of you know the distinct sound that bell has)

So she tells me these things that we could do so we could spend more time together, but the way she was saying it she would also say "or what else could we do?" like that, and I wasn't gonna just come out and say sex so I mentioned stuff like just me and her and candles and soft music and touching and things of that sort.

Well she still says she's not sure what I mean, so I finally say f*** it and ask her about a physical relationship. She says "sex?"
And then hangs up on me and says its not gonna work out between us now that she knows thats all I want.

So should I call her back and say thats not what I was talking about and go about another approach or just "next"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by B-Real
Ok, to make a long story short, I was talking/dating with this girl for almost 3 weeks. Well the conversation of sex came up, well, not really at first. We were talking one night and she said that she would like to get to know me better.

So, bells went off in my head that she was talking about sex. (most of you know the distinct sound that bell has)

So she tells me these things that we could do so we could spend more time together, but the way she was saying it she would also say "or what else could we do?" like that, and I wasn't gonna just come out and say sex so I mentioned stuff like just me and her and candles and soft music and touching and things of that sort.

Well she still says she's not sure what I mean, so I finally say f*** it and ask her about a physical relationship. She says "sex?"
And then hangs up on me and says its not gonna work out between us now that she knows thats all I want.

So should I call her back and say thats not what I was talking about and go about another approach or just "next"
You should stop playing games. Lying is playing games. Men dont play games, boys do.

If you feel like calling her back do it, but dont lie about it. If that is all you want move on if that isnt express that. In the long run lying never turns out good and its a sign of COWARDICE".
 

xblitz44x

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She sounds extremely immature, boardline insane. Or 15 years old. Even if she didn't want to have sex, she could have easily explained that she wasn't ready for that, or passed it off as a joke to change the subject. For her to come to the conclusion that "all you want is sex" based on THAT comment, she must have a jumbled fvcking brain.

She did you a favor by hanging up. She would have drove you up a wall before you got the chance to smash that pvssy, I can guarantee you that.
 

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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