"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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flakey girl from club

pyros

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So I think I wrote about this chick in a previous thread but whatever.

I met this chick in a club like a month ago. She was smiling at me so I went to talk to her. We talked for around 15-20 minutes, then I asked for her number but she prefered to take mine.

A few days later she texted me, we texted back and forth, she seemed interested etc so I asked her out but she said she was busy during the week.

Then on Friday I texted her and she seemed disinterested, giving lame replies etc, I asked her out anyway and she said that she would text me later. She never did.

Four weeks later, I decided to hit her up for drinks since I did not have anything to loose cause I did not really care whether she accepted my date offer or not, but just to try. I texted her, she seemed happy to hear from me etc, agreed to meet and then I called her and she seemed occupied so she told me she would text me later to arrange it. She never did.

Today, three days later she texted me saying she's sorry for not texting me blah blah, cause something came up and that she would like to have a drink sometime this week if Im still interested...

dumb woman...really. I will reply to her later at night (like 10 hours after she texted me) and see if we finally meet , but I am not very enthusiastic about it. Actually, I lost all my interest in her when she did not text me when she said she would.

Anyway, I'll give her a shot.

Any bets? lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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U know what ur up against.

this girls life has been about setting up boys and getting her laughs with her bottom dwelling friends.

its a bad bet, that will pay off a lot. But its fleeting.

some might say ur not in an abundance state.
 

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so I replied to her telling her that we could either meet today or next thursday.
Her reply:
her: "oh, I cant make it this week, what about the following thursday? if its ok with you"

then we had a small funy convo...in which I flirted a bit in the end.

What is this girl doing? really... I thought she was gonna say something like:
her: "I cant THIS thursday but on the weekedend is fine for me"

I was gonna suggest next Saturday but I dont want to look sooo available, I dont know...

First she texts me that she would like to meet sometime, then I suggest either today or thursday and she says she cant make it this thursday, and what about the next one.
wtf?

I could meet her any day really, but...

Do I text her this thursday to meet on saturday? or do I do nothing instead and wait to see if she texts me next week for that next thursday she said?
 
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Delete her number. Go to club this weekend and find another woman.
 

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Fvck the club this weekend.

Go out today, tonight...around the mall...movie theater...busy intersection...to find one.
All u need is one freaking date...forget that other girl.

Ur being played like a fiddle pyros.

If u were my friend and u kept flaking like that i would drop u...if u were a good friend i wouldnt text u for a month.

I have other friends too u know.

And u have other plates too u know.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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