Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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flakey girl from club

pyros

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So I think I wrote about this chick in a previous thread but whatever.

I met this chick in a club like a month ago. She was smiling at me so I went to talk to her. We talked for around 15-20 minutes, then I asked for her number but she prefered to take mine.

A few days later she texted me, we texted back and forth, she seemed interested etc so I asked her out but she said she was busy during the week.

Then on Friday I texted her and she seemed disinterested, giving lame replies etc, I asked her out anyway and she said that she would text me later. She never did.

Four weeks later, I decided to hit her up for drinks since I did not have anything to loose cause I did not really care whether she accepted my date offer or not, but just to try. I texted her, she seemed happy to hear from me etc, agreed to meet and then I called her and she seemed occupied so she told me she would text me later to arrange it. She never did.

Today, three days later she texted me saying she's sorry for not texting me blah blah, cause something came up and that she would like to have a drink sometime this week if Im still interested...

dumb woman...really. I will reply to her later at night (like 10 hours after she texted me) and see if we finally meet , but I am not very enthusiastic about it. Actually, I lost all my interest in her when she did not text me when she said she would.

Anyway, I'll give her a shot.

Any bets? lol.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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U know what ur up against.

this girls life has been about setting up boys and getting her laughs with her bottom dwelling friends.

its a bad bet, that will pay off a lot. But its fleeting.

some might say ur not in an abundance state.
 

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so I replied to her telling her that we could either meet today or next thursday.
Her reply:
her: "oh, I cant make it this week, what about the following thursday? if its ok with you"

then we had a small funy convo...in which I flirted a bit in the end.

What is this girl doing? really... I thought she was gonna say something like:
her: "I cant THIS thursday but on the weekedend is fine for me"

I was gonna suggest next Saturday but I dont want to look sooo available, I dont know...

First she texts me that she would like to meet sometime, then I suggest either today or thursday and she says she cant make it this thursday, and what about the next one.
wtf?

I could meet her any day really, but...

Do I text her this thursday to meet on saturday? or do I do nothing instead and wait to see if she texts me next week for that next thursday she said?
 
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Delete her number. Go to club this weekend and find another woman.
 

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Fvck the club this weekend.

Go out today, tonight...around the mall...movie theater...busy intersection...to find one.
All u need is one freaking date...forget that other girl.

Ur being played like a fiddle pyros.

If u were my friend and u kept flaking like that i would drop u...if u were a good friend i wouldnt text u for a month.

I have other friends too u know.

And u have other plates too u know.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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