"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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flakey girl from club

pyros

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So I think I wrote about this chick in a previous thread but whatever.

I met this chick in a club like a month ago. She was smiling at me so I went to talk to her. We talked for around 15-20 minutes, then I asked for her number but she prefered to take mine.

A few days later she texted me, we texted back and forth, she seemed interested etc so I asked her out but she said she was busy during the week.

Then on Friday I texted her and she seemed disinterested, giving lame replies etc, I asked her out anyway and she said that she would text me later. She never did.

Four weeks later, I decided to hit her up for drinks since I did not have anything to loose cause I did not really care whether she accepted my date offer or not, but just to try. I texted her, she seemed happy to hear from me etc, agreed to meet and then I called her and she seemed occupied so she told me she would text me later to arrange it. She never did.

Today, three days later she texted me saying she's sorry for not texting me blah blah, cause something came up and that she would like to have a drink sometime this week if Im still interested...

dumb woman...really. I will reply to her later at night (like 10 hours after she texted me) and see if we finally meet , but I am not very enthusiastic about it. Actually, I lost all my interest in her when she did not text me when she said she would.

Anyway, I'll give her a shot.

Any bets? lol.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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U know what ur up against.

this girls life has been about setting up boys and getting her laughs with her bottom dwelling friends.

its a bad bet, that will pay off a lot. But its fleeting.

some might say ur not in an abundance state.
 

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so I replied to her telling her that we could either meet today or next thursday.
Her reply:
her: "oh, I cant make it this week, what about the following thursday? if its ok with you"

then we had a small funy convo...in which I flirted a bit in the end.

What is this girl doing? really... I thought she was gonna say something like:
her: "I cant THIS thursday but on the weekedend is fine for me"

I was gonna suggest next Saturday but I dont want to look sooo available, I dont know...

First she texts me that she would like to meet sometime, then I suggest either today or thursday and she says she cant make it this thursday, and what about the next one.
wtf?

I could meet her any day really, but...

Do I text her this thursday to meet on saturday? or do I do nothing instead and wait to see if she texts me next week for that next thursday she said?
 
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Delete her number. Go to club this weekend and find another woman.
 

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Fvck the club this weekend.

Go out today, tonight...around the mall...movie theater...busy intersection...to find one.
All u need is one freaking date...forget that other girl.

Ur being played like a fiddle pyros.

If u were my friend and u kept flaking like that i would drop u...if u were a good friend i wouldnt text u for a month.

I have other friends too u know.

And u have other plates too u know.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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