"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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flakey girl from club

pyros

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So I think I wrote about this chick in a previous thread but whatever.

I met this chick in a club like a month ago. She was smiling at me so I went to talk to her. We talked for around 15-20 minutes, then I asked for her number but she prefered to take mine.

A few days later she texted me, we texted back and forth, she seemed interested etc so I asked her out but she said she was busy during the week.

Then on Friday I texted her and she seemed disinterested, giving lame replies etc, I asked her out anyway and she said that she would text me later. She never did.

Four weeks later, I decided to hit her up for drinks since I did not have anything to loose cause I did not really care whether she accepted my date offer or not, but just to try. I texted her, she seemed happy to hear from me etc, agreed to meet and then I called her and she seemed occupied so she told me she would text me later to arrange it. She never did.

Today, three days later she texted me saying she's sorry for not texting me blah blah, cause something came up and that she would like to have a drink sometime this week if Im still interested...

dumb woman...really. I will reply to her later at night (like 10 hours after she texted me) and see if we finally meet , but I am not very enthusiastic about it. Actually, I lost all my interest in her when she did not text me when she said she would.

Anyway, I'll give her a shot.

Any bets? lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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U know what ur up against.

this girls life has been about setting up boys and getting her laughs with her bottom dwelling friends.

its a bad bet, that will pay off a lot. But its fleeting.

some might say ur not in an abundance state.
 

pyros

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so I replied to her telling her that we could either meet today or next thursday.
Her reply:
her: "oh, I cant make it this week, what about the following thursday? if its ok with you"

then we had a small funy convo...in which I flirted a bit in the end.

What is this girl doing? really... I thought she was gonna say something like:
her: "I cant THIS thursday but on the weekedend is fine for me"

I was gonna suggest next Saturday but I dont want to look sooo available, I dont know...

First she texts me that she would like to meet sometime, then I suggest either today or thursday and she says she cant make it this thursday, and what about the next one.
wtf?

I could meet her any day really, but...

Do I text her this thursday to meet on saturday? or do I do nothing instead and wait to see if she texts me next week for that next thursday she said?
 
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Delete her number. Go to club this weekend and find another woman.
 

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Fvck the club this weekend.

Go out today, tonight...around the mall...movie theater...busy intersection...to find one.
All u need is one freaking date...forget that other girl.

Ur being played like a fiddle pyros.

If u were my friend and u kept flaking like that i would drop u...if u were a good friend i wouldnt text u for a month.

I have other friends too u know.

And u have other plates too u know.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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