"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TylerDurden

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I'm just a little pissed right now. Here's the story. Yesterday I meet this chick. I use heavy C&F. I tell her I have to go and I start to leave. She says that she wants to take me out to dinner tommorrow, which would be today.

She calls me this morning to tell me she can't make dinner tonight but she would do lunch with me tommorrow. In true DJ form I tell her that I already have a committment for tommorrow. You could hear a pin drop as she tries to recover.

She tries to pin me down for lunch but I tell her that we'll work something to get together one day.

I was so pissed that I was downgraded overnight from dinner to lunch. I kept my cool though.

Chicks are so flaky. I can't stand it sometimes.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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redshift

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Nice going there. You let her know that your time is valuble.

But, i guess she prolly was genuine about the thing too.. dunno..?
 

TylerDurden

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Yes she was genuine because she did call me BUT she tried to switch me from dinner to lunch.

The consensus here is that this is a downgrade. Think of it this way. It’s like inviting a chick to lunch but then you call her back and suggest that you guys go out for coffee instead.
 

jprjrjr

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Originally posted by TylerDurden
Yes she was genuine because she did call me BUT she tried to switch me from dinner to lunch.

The consensus here is that this is a downgrade. Think of it this way. It’s like inviting a chick to lunch but then you call her back and suggest that you guys go out for coffee instead.
You're right tyler. Regardless of whether her excuse was legit, she was trying to set a tone with you. You countered that by showing that you won't accept these little games.

P.S. It's one thing if she had a genuine excuse, but why say dinner, then go for lunch?
 

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Originally posted by TylerDurden
I'm just a little pissed right now. Here's the story. Yesterday I meet this chick. I use heavy C&F....
Thats the biggest problem i saw. C&F works to an extent but its never good to use heavy C&F use it occasionaly. Alot of guys think its all about the C&F BUT ITS NOT.

Ninja Out
 

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